How are children affected by divorce?

20 October 2025 | Child Law Services |

Relationship breakdown isn’t fun for any member of the family. However, it can be particularly confusing and upsetting for children. The impact of divorce on children will ultimately depend on your personal circumstances. However, typically, the more straightforward and harmonious the process, the easier your children will find it to transition.

This requires both parents to communicate well and minimise conflict wherever possible. Arguing parents can be a source of great stress to children, no matter their age. Alternative dispute resolution methods such as mediation can be particularly helpful in this regard.

Mediation involves sitting down with a qualified mediator to discuss your separation arrangements. The mediator is not there to take sides or provide legal advice, but to guide your discussion and defuse conflict. By coming to an agreement in a neutral mediation environment, you can avoid exposing your children to stressful court proceedings, safeguarding their emotional wellbeing.